Wednesday, September 14, 2011

KU Kirpa

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Wahgeuru Ji Ki Fateh =)
Vahgeuru Ji <3 ,
Sorry for not posting so much lately. I've just been busy at school & work- but here's a post finally- I have some nice ones lined up for you- sorry for the delay though.
Thank you for your patience, Vaheguru <3


Recently, I've found myself, with Pita Ji's Kirpa- full of Bharosa at Pita Ji's Charan Kamal- it is amazing how much that has changed me- there is so much strength in the consciousness of Simran, Nitnem and in just believing that our house is at Pita Ji's Charan Kamal. I'm so blessed to have a Dastaar, and my 5 kakkar, It's amazing <3


This post is, is all about the amazing Kirpa I have had through Kaurs United 2011, and the amazing things I have learnt.
Just some notes from camp for my lovely soul sisters (y'all). Of course so many thank you's to all the people who make KU Sangat, who make KU possible, who come to KU and bless us with their time and their wisdom- the wonderful speakers & sevadaars <3 .... Spl. thanks to the Kaur who took these notes and shared them with me =)


But here we go, with sharing some of those jewels of wisdom =) :
  • For every breath you take, there is an account being made.- Whatever you are doing with that breath or at the time you are using that breath.
  • There are 32 qualities that make a Singhnee true and give her good character. Which she will pass on to her kid (bruhmgiani):

  1.  - true beauty
  2. - modesty
  3. - intellect (gurmat budhi)
  4. - stubbornness (acting righteously)- (If your trying to do something good and are being stopped, you say that you are Going to do it.)
  5. - friendly (good heart)
  6. - truthful (fidelity)
  7. - courage (himmat)
  8. - cleanliness/purity
  9. - focused/attentive (controlling your thoughts)
  10. - wise
  11. - effort
  12. - helpful/humanitarian
  13. - adopts and adorns virtues
  14. - maturity
  15. - pure mind (shush mun)
  16. - religion (baptized)- (accept that Guru ji is your Guru)
  17. - forgiveness
  18. - self- knowledge
  19. - sensory control
  20. -abides by rehit maryada (don't do beyadbi of kes, soch pavitr, etc)
  21. - nitnem (minimum foundation above this increase)
  22. - patience (not indesiveness)
  23. - humility (keeping your own head low)
  24. - agile (don't think oh someone else will do it, YOU do it.)
  25. - compassionate
  26. - love for the Lord (unconditional love)
  27. - content (feel content with yourself, if your feeling restless or something, do bani)
  28. - no hatred (no judging, hating on discriminating, etc)
  29. - does not believe in killing of animals
  30. - Not lustful
  31. -Soor-Beertaa (Bravery/fearlessness)
  32. -NirVair (no enmity) [I'm guessing, cause for some reason, the notes had only 30 and I know 32 were mentioned- I'm listening to the lecture again to figure the 2 but Soor-beertaa is definitely one, but I can't promise the NirVair, but I'll edit this if I find out the #32 =P Sorry]

  • http://www.gurunanakacademy.com/audio/English%20Katha/Saturday%20Night%20Program/%5B2011-08-27%5D--Bhai.Pardeep.Singh--True.Beauty.mp3
  • This is the true list of qualities a Singhnee has. Many times people try to make their own qualities that a Singhnee/woman should have. They try to mix culture with religion. And that's not right.
  • Your Pitha Ji is Sri Akaal Purkh Ji.
    And your Mata Ji is Mata Sahib Kaur. With their lap the Khalsa is fully established. 
    Remember that.
  • Eras change because overall mass mentality changes.
    We are now in Kalyug. We are the people who make Kalyug- we are the people who constitute that mentality- so we need to be Righteous.
  • It's not the body it's the soul (joth)
  • Don't polish your face and body  (external features)! Polish your soul,your heart, your mind, internally.
    You need a picture of maya Bhag kaur or mata sahib kaur your mirror
  • 8 essentials to leadership as a point of love & influence :
    - patience: to show self control of impulse control.
    - kindness: showing common appreciate to others; encouragement.
    - humility: display and absence of pride and arrogance; be real.
    - respect: treating people like they are important.
    - selflessness: meeting the needs of others.
    - forgiveness: letting go of resentment.
    - honesty: being free from deception.
    - commitment: sticking to your choice.
    Having that voice but not washing over the other voices.

  • -maya has three guons (characteristics):
Rajo, tamo, and sato.
-rajo: worries, and thoughts avbout your lifestyle.(paying bills etc)
- tamo: kaam, krodh, lob, mo, hankaar, nindhia, eerkha.
- sato: dharam, parupkaar, sunthok, nimaratha.
Elements- rajo: paani (water)
Sato: baistanther
Tamo: pavan
-The separation between a bottle of water and the ocean is the bottle. Bottle is Maya.
-if something makes you forget God, it is Maya.
When you are amritdhari, Live your life while thinking the punj are walking with you.
Whatever you do you should do thinking they r there.

  • The biggest sin there is is to hurt someone's heart. Imagine guru sahib in everyone. A heart is guru ji's ghar (house).
  • -Replace every negative thought with a positive one.
-You have to be careful what you think. As you think, you become.
-You have to get CRYSTAL clear as to what you want to achieve in your life, what you want to be. 
-Don't be scared to think OUT of the box.
-YOU spin the thread of thought into your destiny, if you don't know where exactly you are going, you might just end up somewhere else.
- negative thoughts build a prison, positive ones build a home.

  • Four steps to communicating:
    (require fearless love, living with no fear. Those who live in fear (consciously aware- of life and afterlife) have love and can live with guru ji's principles and way of living)
    - poke (bringing your heart and your mind with awareness to te conversation. asking questions in loving manner, actually caring)
    - provoke (listening to the answer and going deeper to see what the issue is at hand)
    - confront (recognizing that issue and bringing it to life; bringing issue into focus, listening to both sides)
    - Elevate (uplift person, find that level of compromise or understanding, leaving conversation at an uplifted place. Offer person support and give them hope.)
    *whatever you are going to say is going to Live forever. You've created something and let it out to the world. It'll come back to you. We have to live through what we have put out."
    "You are communicating for a better tomorrow, so don't spoil today. "
  • Whatever you create will come back to you.


Vaheguru Ji <3
here are a few things you can do (please <3 ): 
Ok, I'll get going
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
May you all have Pita Ji's lap to sleep on at the end of the day tonight; well, you will...actually you always do- our dad reallyyyyyy loves us- ask in your Ardaas after Kirtan Sohila- for Pita Ji to have you experience His Lap-= and you'll know what I'm talking about- soooooo blissful. Oh I love those nights <3
I'll see you all later =) 

Love & Light <3 Hugs & Prayers

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